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Lifestyle Brief

Reflect to clarify your values, desires, & intentions for the life you want to live.

Start with a reflection:
 - What does a fulfilling day look like?
 - How do I want to feel each day?
 - What am I called to do in this season?
 - What do I value more than anything?
 - What do you want less of?
 - What am I hoping to create or change?
 - Top three core values:

Let go of what's not serving you:

Define how you want to live

  • List habits, beliefs, or pressures you're ready to release (eg: overcommitment or too many hours at work).
    Plan your ideal lifestyle.

Think about:

  • What matters most to you
  • Rhythms, spaces & priorities you desire
  • What are you leaving behind?
    Write your ‘Lifestyle Brief’
    For example, you might like a -
  • Grounded & Simple Life
  • Creative & Purposeful Life
  • Spirit-Led Life
  • Builder’s Vision
  • Family-Focused Life  

Let your life shape your design.

Key Questions for Men
• What are my values?
• What is important?
• What is my vision?
• What do I really believe in?
• How will I roll out this next chapter of life?
• What am I going to do with this next chapter of life?

Discovering Your Purpose

  1. What's your deepest desire 
  2. What do you wish for humanity?
  3. What makes you feel angry? [eg: people who are irresponsible, or broken relationships & families, etc]
  4. What is your deepest passion & inspiration?
  5. What do you think about it when you relax alone? [eg: Your children's wellbeing, spending time with those I love, the beauty of nature, projects, etc]
  6. What do you wish to change in your community & country?
  7. What would you do if there were no limits to resources or money?
  8. What are your natural gifts & talents? [eg: encouragement, discernment, positivity, encouragement, building strong relationships]
  9. What could you do without compensation? [eg: dance]